Forgiveness...

This is from a video...




You Neglected Me...
You Rejected Me...
Then...You Despised Me...



You Used My Love
You Took Away My Ability To Trust...
You Killed Mom...



Father...I Forgive You...



When Deep Injury is done to us...
We Never Recover Until We Forgive...



Forgiveness Does Not Change The Past...
But It Does Enlarge The Future...



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That was a great video...
With great lessons...



Forgive is a hard move to make...
It is hard...For me...Very...



Can you forgive someone who create a misery to your life...
Deep injury with deep scars...



Can you forgive...instead of hate...



Be honest...
I can't...I couldn't...
I'm not that perfect...



I'm just an ordinary person...

理所当然...

一段感情最基本的元素...
喜欢...
信任...
珍惜...
和付出...



很多人往往都因为对方常为你做某些事...
你习惯了...
你没感觉了...
最后...你理所当然了...



为什么人永远都那么自私呢...



付出了...
牺牲了...
忍受了...
委屈了...



为什么他/她能做到如此呢...
很简单...
因为在乎...



很多人都学不会珍惜...



两个人在一起...
为对方付出是必要的...



可是...
这不是理所当然的...
不要觉得他/ 她这么做是应该的...
不要抱着对方欠你的想法...



很要不得...



其实...
付出的人要的不是回报...
更不是你理所当然的态度...
他/她要的...只是珍惜...



珍惜对方为你做的事...
不是埋怨...抱怨...并要求对方做更多...
这不是理所当然的...



一旦你失去了你认为理所当然的事...
后悔...
有用吗...



感情里没有谁欠谁...
没有理所当然的付出...



珍惜...
有那么难吗...



人永远都是以自我为中心...
思考的出发点往往都是自己...



你是这样的人吗...
你还想继续如此吗...



你的人生...
你的抉择...

忘记一个人...??? 不...应该是过去一个人...

忘记一个人...
让一个人从记忆中彻底消失...可能吗...


每个人...
都经历过这阶段...


忘记一个人是不是...就要离开一个人...
忘记一个人是不是...需要另一人的陪伴...


不同的人...
不同的方法...


其实...很残酷的...
根本没有办法忘记一个人...


受了伤...痛了...
我们就祈求遗忘...


人们的想法是否都那么天真...


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其实...
我们要做的....


不是忘记一个人...
而是过去一个人...


就算现在的你能够自信的说忘记了...
但能够促使你想起的因素有太多了...


东西，地方，人，生活习惯，日子...
都会让你不得不想起...


忍受...
感受...
最后接受...


忍受一定的伤痛...
感受现在的感受...
接受已发生的发生...


我们不应该活在记忆中...
毕竟那是不变的定数...


接受已发生的...
过去应该过去的...


就算过去了一个人...
我们还是会想起...


但是这些想起不是因为想念...
而是记得其存在...但已没有感觉了...


过了一段时间...
我们会因为现在的自己而微笑不已...


因为...
我们过去了...


珍惜现在...
不要再花时间...过去另一个人了...


失去是为了得到...
忘记是为了过去...
然而珍惜...是为了持久...


祝福大家...

Candy =)

Addicted to the candy u gave~~
It was a great number of it~~


Tooth decay soon~~
But I'm sweet for that~~ =)

Silence...

Night comes...
Still awake...


Can't get you off my head...
When can I have a nice sleep...


That seems impossible for me...
Closing my eyes had become a fear to me...


Thoughts flood my head...
Can't even breath...


Saw my fren's msn tittle...
It makes sense...


Rather miss you silently...
Better than let you know but you do nothing about it...


Sad one huh...??
This is what facts are...


Face it...


I can quit you...
Can I...??

欺.己

一个人最可悲的不是欺骗自己...
最可悲的是当他想欺骗自己时...


却怎么也欺骗不了...
我欺骗不了...

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Almost 3am now...
Can't sleep...


Nite...
Used to sleep late at nite...


But as the day comes nite...
So does the vanity...


Thinks a lot dat time....
But most of them are unwise thoughts...


Being honest ain't a part of me...
Act like I don't when I do...


I'll never break through that...
That is my nature maybe...


Suffer me a lot...


Since when I've lost trust to people...
Since when I've lost the ability to accept...
Since when I've learned to lie...
Since when I've learned to laugh when I'm not...


These thoughts filled me...
I can't get rid of them...


Smile =)...
How long I didn't smile when I mean it...


Used that symbol frequently...
Saw that symbol frequently...


Did they meant it when using it...?
That symbol can delight a person maybe...


Not me...